Key takeaways
- Temporary orders often become the status quo—take the first hearing seriously.
- Mediation is required in many states before trial.
- Custody evaluators and guardians ad litem carry weight; treat interviews like testimony.
- Courtroom conduct is evidence.
In this section
Legal / educational information
The stages
Petition and service → temporary orders hearing → discovery and financial disclosures → mediation → possible evaluation or GAL → pretrial → trial → final decree. Enforcement and modification come later.
Legal / educational information
Preparing for hearings
Organize exhibits, write a one-page summary of what you are asking for and why, and practice answering directly. See the court hearing preparation checklist.
Frequently asked questions
You can represent yourself, but custody stakes are high. At minimum, consult an attorney about strategy and deadlines.
Sources
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